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social, family, or work situations or with people you don’t
know, do you frequently feel that what you say, do or stop doing
was wrong so that you are uncomfortable with yourself? |
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| Do
you feel that you have not done enough for your parents, brothers
and sisters, or any other relative; that you can give them more? |
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| Do
you often think that you should do what your friends or relatives
tell you to do, even though you really don’t want to? |
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| Do
you try to help others, giving them your best so they will be okay,
regardless of the fact that you do not have enough for own wellbeing? |
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| Do
you frequently feel that people that you live with try to take advantage
of you or take advantage of your good nature? |
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| Do
you believe that no matter what you do others criticize, judge,
condemn or envy you? |
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| When
you argue with your parents, brothers and sisters, friends, bosses,
spouse, do you have the feeling that you have caused whatever problem
you are arguing about? |
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| Are
you easily annoyed or angry, and then later feel bad for having
lost control? |
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| When
somebody becomes angry, shouts or makes a disapproving face, do
you feel bad or uncomfortable, even though it is not directed towards
you? |
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| Would
you like to show others how successful you are? |
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| If
somebody is unfair or you believe that they are being unfair, do
you let things go without trying to clarify the situation, so as
not to cause any problems? |
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| When
you go shopping do you buy whatever you want, or do you feel that
it’s too expensive and that this is not the right time to
spend your money, even though you have the money or really need
what you are shopping for? |
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| Do
you often try to fix other people’s problems before they have
asked for your help? |
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| Do
you feel that your father or mother never loved you? |
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| Have
you ever thought that you would like to disappear? |
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| Have
you ever thought that you were adopted? |
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| When
you were a baby, child or adolescent, did you live apart from you
mother or father? |
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| Have
you ever felt that you are not part of your family? |
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| Have
you ever asked yourself why you are alive, what the purpose of your
life is? |
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